Are you looking for a little more love in your life? More specifically are you ready to manifest your ideal boyfriend. When it comes to using the law of attraction and manifesting a relationship like a boyfriend there are some key factors you must know and that’s what this article is all about.
This article, it’s going to be about how you can manifest a boyfriend fast. Now manifesting a boyfriend requires you to get in the vibrational state of allowing. This means you cannot chase the boyfriend that you desire but you must let them come to you naturally.
If you are sending out positive vibrations and are detached from the outcome, manifesting a boyfriend will happen very very easily. So in this article, I will share with you a few extremely crucial elements that you’ll need to know when going through the motions to manifest a boyfriend fast.
4 Crucial elements you need to know to manifest a boyfriend fast
1. Be happy and satisfied with yourself first
Now before you even begin to think about manifesting a boyfriend you need to make sure you are 100% happy, satisfied, and feel worthy with yourself.
If you’re trying to manifest a boyfriend because you aren’t happy with your life and you feel like a boyfriend you know will make you happy this is just simply not going to work.
You either won’t manifest anything at all or you will manifest a boyfriend that is not going to give you any fulfillment and could potentially be harmful in your life. This is because how you feel about yourself is a reflection of your outer world.
If you are not happy with yourself you are going to attract people who are not happy with themselves either.
And a great quote from the author Neil Donald Walsh says this “the purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you but to have another whom you might share your completeness”.
Also over the years, I’ve always heard the term “oh my boyfriend completes me or things” along those lines and honestly that’s not how it’s supposed to be. You should feel absolutely 100% complete just as you are and the desire to have a boyfriend should be because you want to share that completeness with them and expand even further.
So if you aren’t here yet, if you aren’t at that point yet, that mindset yet I would recommend not moving forward with these manifestation practices yet and instead focus on yourself a little bit more. So then you can start feeling that you know wholeness within yourself and that’s truly the key to living an abundant life.
2. Get clear on the qualities of an ideal boyfriend
To get started with manifesting a boyfriend and doing it as fast as possible you want to get very very clear on what it is you want and this is where many people kind of trip up.
Like they know they want a boyfriend in their life but they never get specific enough about what type of person they want, so they end up attracting more of what they’re used to like their exes and things like that.
So when you are attempting to manifest anything it’s important to remember that the universe loves when you’re very distinct on what you want, so when you are finally ready to put your request out to the universe for a boyfriend make sure you’re very clear on what you want.
Take the time, sit down and write down maybe 10 to 20 qualities that you want your manifested boyfriend to have. And doing this really allows you to hone in and understand what it is you want and it allows the universe to understand your request so much better.
So here’s kind of an example of a few things you could say if you wrote down, so you could be like – I want a boyfriend who you know is an active good listener, is very committed, takes care of their appearance, is empathetic, funny, compassionate things like that and again this is just a small list of examples.
I recommend making yours bigger maybe even more specific but you kind of get the idea just start with some general things and then start getting more and more specific. But once you’ve compiled your list read it a few times so your mind and the universe can begin to sync up together.
You’re then actually going to use this list for the next step which is visualization.
3. Visualization is a powerful step when you manifest a boyfriend
Now that you know exactly what your ideal boyfriend’s qualities are and you probably have a decently good idea of what they look like or what you want them to look like it’s time for some fun, it’s time for visualizing, and visualizing is so powerful because it allows you to see your future reality and really feel it before it’s even happened.
It’s like seeing a movie trailer of your life’s next exciting happenings and it’s crucial to remember that when you sit down to do visualization that you aren’t necessarily doing it to see but you are doing it to feel.
It’s the feeling and the emotion you really want to focus on because that’s the powerful magnetic energy that’s going to pull the real situation into your reality. So if you can feel what it feels like to be with your perfect boyfriend right now you start to attract it.
So the best thing you can really do is just you know close your eyes, imagine yourself with your ideal boyfriend.
Imagine yourself hanging out together, watching a movie together, having dinner together whatever it is walking down the street together, holding hands but feel that emotion. Feel the feeling of what it feels like to be so close to him. To be in that experience right now and try to generate that emotion, generate that feeling.
So close your eyes picture these moments happening between the two of you picture situations where you’re together, where you’re looking in his eyes, where you just feel so loved, feel so incredible, fantastic, and really generate those feelings. Because it’s those emotions living in the end so to speak that will create it to actually happen in your present reality.
4. Don’t chase them, let them come to you
This is a big step that many people miss and it causes their manifestations to crash and burn. When it comes to a relationship and manifesting a boyfriend quickly you need to let them come to you.
That means you cannot go and chase someone around and try your hardest to get them to be your boyfriend.
If you’ve been perfect with all the other manifestation steps but you still have not manifested the boyfriend that you want this is probably why. Chasing a relationship is the reason you’re not in one.
When you really want something you are sending out energy to the universe that you don’t have. You are sending out a vibration of being desperate and this vibration is full of resistance and keeps what you want from coming into your life.
Vibrationally speaking anytime you are chasing someone it means that person is running away and like we previously talked about it’s important that you feel worthy and complete just being with yourself that puts you in a very powerful state of allowing. because you don’t need anybody else to make you happy.
And as Abraham hicks like to say your ultimate point of attraction should feel something like this: I’m not going anywhere, everything I want is coming to me and we can even modify it a little bit to fit in the situation that we want and saying I’m not chasing my ideal boyfriend because my ideal boyfriend is coming right to me.
If you can get to the point where you really feel that you can sit back and relax. You can sit back and relax and trust that the universe is setting things in motion to make that perfect boyfriend appear in your reality without you needing to even lift a finger or do anything else.
If you get to that mindset then it’s only a matter of days, not even days, hours until they show up in your life. So with that, you have everything you need in order to manifest the boyfriend of your dreams.
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Conclusion on how to manifest a boyfriend
The most important aspect of all of this is just maintaining the alignment of being satisfied with where you are and eager to see your boyfriend show up in life.
So don’t worry, don’t chase, don’t bag because all of this works against you. Again sit back relax and enjoy the unfolding of all this taking place and I can assure you if you follow all these steps before you know it you’ll be feeling incredible with your new ideal boyfriend right there by your side.
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